|The 10 things every woman is looking for…|
|Written by Administrator on Monday, 30 April 2012 10:13|
To men, the dreaded “C-word” often implies compromise, loss of independence, sacrifice of sexual variety, and financial devastation that would make the economic meltdown look like child’s play. Men today are overwhelmingly hesitant about getting married. However, cohabitation, basically commitment with an escape route, is on the rise. Women crave commitment to feel safe, secure, wanted and special and cohabitation allows men to give a false sense of those things, without a concrete commitment.
Women want their feelings to be heard and understood, not solved. They want to be able to talk to their loved one and share our life. Men are naturally programmed to problem-solve. If they hear an issue, they want to analyze it and ultimately find a solution. Shakespeare nailed it on the head when he said, “women speak two languages- one of which is verbal.” This means that half of the communication women speak of is through listening.
3. Emotionally Stable
However much she may say that she wants a sensitive man, women want to be the emotional ones in the relationship. Confidence and independence are very appealing traits in a man, insecurity and needy are not. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on, not one that looks desperately lost every time there is a small issue. A woman wants a man who is in check of his emotions.
There is a fine line between confidence and cockiness, and a good number of guys in this country have crossed to the wrong end of it. Women want a man that exhibits confidence in public and can easily handle difficult situations. It takes a confident man to be secure and respectful.
Women want a secure man who admits when he makes a mistake, and takes responsibility for his own actions. One of the meanings of the word “husband” is someone who skillfully manages his household. A manager takes responsibility. If a man wants to be seen as a worthy partner he has to show leadership. When he sees a situation that needs to be dealt with, he should step forward and handle it; women admire that. Also, if kids are in your future or in your life already, you want a strong, responsible role model for them to look up to, not another play-buddy who’s actions are not better than those of a child.